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Anonymous 1313 03-28-2023 11:26 PM

NPHC intake/interest
 
Hi! I could really use some advice. So basically I attended an undergrad informational the beginning of this month where I turned in an app., a couple days later I received a membership invitation email and they said they would tell me the next steps of the MIP. Since then I have had an interview and submitted several other required documents. My documents were submitted almost 3 weeks ago and I haven't heard anything yet. I'm just starting to get paranoid that maybe they decided not to pursue me anymore. I'm also a bit confused cause Im not familiar with the process of getting invited for membership prior to an interview. I'm starting to lose a bit of hope since the lines at my school are typically revealed around this time or late April. I've honestly started checking my email and mailbox for a rejection letter so I just wanted to know if the situation sounds like I should just move on or if it's possible they may get back to me?

Sen's Revenge 03-29-2023 08:24 AM

The communication you received about intake most likely had contact information for a chapter advisor. You should reach out to them, the chapter president, or whoever sent the email for next steps.

Anonymous 1313 03-29-2023 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Sen's Revenge (Post 2494071)
The communication you received about intake most likely had contact information for a chapter advisor. You should reach out to them, the chapter president, or whoever sent the email for next steps.

The only contact info that I have is the email of the chapter (which is the email that they've been using to send me info about my previous interview and additional documents). I've been contemplating reaching out to them but I guess I just don't want to seem annoying. Also my thought process has kind been if they wanted to they would. I only say that because the chapter is really small and I was 1 of about 4 people to attend the informational so I doubt it would take this long to get back to me if they wanted me to participate in intake.

Titchou 03-29-2023 05:11 PM

Maybe the schedule this year is late April like you stated it sometimes is.

Anonymous 1313 03-29-2023 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Titchou (Post 2494082)
Maybe the schedule this year is late April like you stated it sometimes is.

yea that's true it might be. Im just going to wait and see what happens, hope for the best but prepare for the worst. There's really nothing I can do at this point anyways

lake 03-29-2023 11:23 PM

Good luck! I hope everything goes your way. It's torture to wait for news for something you want so badly.

Anonymous 1313 03-30-2023 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by lake (Post 2494087)
Good luck! I hope everything goes your way. It's torture to wait for news for something you want so badly.

Thank you so much! I really hope so too

Anonymous 1313 03-30-2023 11:38 PM

Also can anybody tell me if undergrad chapters of NPHC orgs even send out rejection letters? Like is that technically part of the protocol or is it something they can chose to do or not?

Anonymous 1313 04-16-2023 02:14 AM

Just an update, I didn’t make it. I saw the probate flyer today and that’s how I found out. I wish I received a resection letter so I could have moved on by now but for now it definitely hurts but definitely happy for anybody that made it

navane 04-16-2023 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous 1313 (Post 2494489)
Just an update, I didn’t make it. I saw the probate flyer today and that’s how I found out. I wish I received a resection letter so I could have moved on by now but for now it definitely hurts but definitely happy for anybody that made it

Oh no, I'm really sorry. It must feel very disappointing. Thank you for coming back to update us and I do wish you the best in the future.

andthen 04-17-2023 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous 1313 (Post 2494489)
Just an update, I didn’t make it. I saw the probate flyer today and that’s how I found out. I wish I received a resection letter so I could have moved on by now but for now it definitely hurts but definitely happy for anybody that made it

I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out as you hoped. Thanks for updating us, and wishing you well. I'm sure it has to be hard especially learning through a flyer that you were not offered an invitation for membership. But kudos to you for being supportive of those who were offered membership. I just hope through the disappointment that joy will come your way in some form.

lake 04-18-2023 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Anonymous 1313 (Post 2494489)
Just an update, I didn’t make it. I saw the probate flyer today and that’s how I found out. I wish I received a resection letter so I could have moved on by now but for now it definitely hurts but definitely happy for anybody that made it

Ugh! What a letdown! It really sucks to find things out that way. Kind of an extra sharp hit to the gut.

I hope you find someplace where you can be you and thrive.


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