I'm pretty sure that the first I listed went where she's a legacy at. She was probably nice to them.
I'm not positive though.
As for the second girl....I talked to a friend of mine a week after rush who is a KD. She told me that the same girl asked one of her sisters that same exact question. I'm assuming that she asked all the sororities that question then. I don't think any sorority in their right mind would keep her.