notyouraverage,
i like your idea!! i know if a pnm had told me that she was nervous, i would have tried my darndest to make her feel better, and relax her.
also if you are feeling sick/have a cold, and you don't feel well, i think that it would be okay to say to your sorority hostess,"i'm sorry if i seem a little out of it....i have a cold, and am not feeling 100%. it would be better to admit that you had a cold, than to have all the sororities think that you were just not interested.
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