Not to get off topic too much but what about having buddies or pals, i.e., match one girl who feels "left out" with a real active girl whose responsibility it is to call and invite the other girl out, take to a party with her, etc.
That helped me so much because I wanted to do more but didn't necessarily have anyone to walk with, etc.
Also, what about little activities during retreats, etc to boost one anothers self esteem. Write on a piece of paper a good trait about someone and make sure the traits are written by someone other than their best friend etc.
I really think if people in general were nicer to one another and better friends to one another, people would have less to vent about.
I think girly/ friendship movies are a great idea because what I love about SATC the most is how incredibly supportive of one another they are.
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