[33girl]

She is really really tired and stressed and overwhelmed right now. You were not in it and you are not going to understand it. She probably doesn't want to call you and whine about this or that. Also, there are things that she just plain is not allowed to share.

I might be saying this because I'm old, But girls don't like being texted at. I mean the constant constant barrage of message after message. If you're doing that, stop.

Something nice you could do is send a bouquet of flowers addressed to the whole house, not just your girlfriend, saying good luck with recruitment.