I'm in SF!!! There are so many of us out here. I'm one of the SF sisters that's trying to get involved in the South Bay Ivy Circle. Definitely tell her to try and come out to an event. Or, you can also PM me and I'll give my info too!
No Alpha Phi should ever be lonely!
I LOVE Berkeley Phis! They are great. They helped us with rush and let us do Initiation in their beautiful house.