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Something to think about: In some situations, the disparity in the PNMs mind between their two choices isn't always so serious that she is devastated when she gets her 2nd choice. Like the PNM ranks ABC first and XYZ second, but isn't upset when she gets XYZ because she still likes them. I could possibly see a PNM being devastated over getting a 3rd choice, but not a 2nd.
I'm not the biggest advocate for this, but I personally think that if you would rather not be in a sorority at all than be in your 2nd choice OR it's so serious that you're going to need counseling or be depressed about getting a bid there--you should just ISP (intentional single pref or "suicide").
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