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Originally Posted by theonedude572
Thanks for everyone's help! I'm going to talk to a couple of different chapters and see which ones I like. If the guys in my friend's chapter seem cool, then I will definitely join. I just don't want to sound like a douche if I find that I'm not compatible with his chapter.
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Just tell your friend that you want to keep an open mind and look at all the chapters.
And remember, it's the chapter's choice whether to extend you a bid; only after that happens do you get to decide whether to accept the bid and join. Which means that if you're really not compatible with your friend's chapter, the chapter may make the decision for you and save you from having to look like a jerk to your friend.
