I gues it isn't my decision or anyone's decision in particular if someone gets a bid or not, but people can look quite normal in a half an hour chat. We have had numebrous girls who seemed perfectly fine in rush and then turned out to have 0 real social skills, or were really not interesed in being in a sorority. They way I see it, if you know a PNM, you should speak up on her behalf if warranted, or against her if necessary. I would want my sisters to do that for me!
-M
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