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Optimist Prime: Am I normal? This thread is freaking me out.
OP, I am with you.
I think this whole thread is pretty crappy.
When I rushed, I know that there were girls in the house who didn't want me there, and people who did. I had made some mistakes in my earlier college experience. However, once they offered me a bid, and I eventually decided to take it, there is no one in the house who could say I am a bad sister. My pledge term, I went to every single meeting, function, random get together they planned. And now, no one can say that I don't look out for my sisters. I love them to death.
You're right that you don't know what each person is like, that you don't get the time to know them well. But not everyone is going to mess up and give your group a kick in the ass.
You're doing one thing I hate the most of any personality trait. You are judging these girls by who you THINK they are, without trying to get to know them better. And in the Greek world, I would think that everyone would be about not perpetuating stereotypes, and getting along.
Or maybe it is just me.
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