Thread: Rec Dilemma
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Old 06-23-2016, 08:41 AM
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There are MANY reasons why she might not get an invite back from the chapter - especially with RFM. Even if you wrote the most glowing rec ever, there could be lots and lots of other girls with equally glowing recs. Say the RFM figures allow them to invite 500 girls back - she could be #501.

Unless the chapter is completely in the toilet, has abysmal return rates and is compelled to invite EVERYONE back every round just to fill a party, which doesn't sound like the case, there is no way her invitation or lack of same can be "traced" back to you.

My guess is that this is all a moot point and the sororities already have this girl's number. Plus - isn't it on the late side to be asking for recs?
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