Dear MM. I understand your anguish. I loooved AAA and they loooved me. It was cosmic perfection. Then they cut me right before pref. I was in a fog of shock for days. Of the two I still had who preffed me one (BBB) gave me a bid. Still in a bit of a daze I accepted. They helped me become a better student and a better person. They taught me to be more gracious to everyone, and I found good friends. Now I am grateful I didn’t turn down the opportunity just because I was still grieving the loss of AAA. I discovered later BBB was a very strong national group. I have had the chance for 50+ years to work with absolutely amazing people, and find pride in the membership. You sound hurt and grieving, but that will pass if you let it, and you can still find happiness.
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