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Old 05-17-2010, 06:44 AM
Janieladie Janieladie is offline
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GPA question.. Is this lying?

Hello everyone. I have been a longtime reader of the boards, and I finally got the nerve to make an account so I can ask this question.
I sincerely apologize in advance if this is a stupid question or it has already been answered elsewhere.
My GPA right now is a 2.86. Not horrible, but obviously nothing to be proud of, either. This is due to me really struggling (I honestly mean that, in my case, struggling is not synonymous to partying too hard) my first semester in a math and an upperclassman level media class, and I recieved c's in both. My grades improved signifigantly last semester, but I still have yet to break a 3.0.
I am taking 3 classes over summer, and if I recieve an A in all 3, which I expect to, my GPA will be a 3.06.
Is it lying to put the 3.06 when registering for recruitment if I register before the grades are officially posted? How about on my legacy/ Rec forms? I am rushing as a sophomore at a fairly competive non-sec southern university, so I already feel disadvantaged.

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Old 05-17-2010, 07:27 AM
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Hello everyone. I have been a longtime reader of the boards, and I finally got the nerve to make an account so I can ask this question.
I sincerely apologize in advance if this is a stupid question or it has already been answered elsewhere.
My GPA right now is a 2.86. Not horrible, but obviously nothing to be proud of, either. This is due to me really struggling (I honestly mean that, in my case, struggling is not synonymous to partying too hard) my first semester in a math and an upperclassman level media class, and I recieved c's in both. My grades improved signifigantly last semester, but I still have yet to break a 3.0.
I am taking 3 classes over summer, and if I recieve an A in all 3, which I expect to, my GPA will be a 3.06.
Is it lying to put the 3.06 when registering for recruitment if I register before the grades are officially posted? How about on my legacy/ Rec forms? I am rushing as a sophomore at a fairly competive non-sec southern university, so I already feel disadvantaged.

Thank you!
Yes, it would be lying. Put your current GPA. If it goes up after summer school, contact the Greek Life Office and request to update your registration GPA.
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Old 05-17-2010, 07:39 AM
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I'm going to preface this by saying that I'm in no way implying that you're dumb.

However, to assume that you're going to get As in all three classes this summer is a little presumptuous. And imagine what would happen if you received a B... Then you'd probably find yourself having to explain why you lied, and I can pretty much guarantee you'd never receive a bid anywhere.

It is lying. Do what WhiteDaisy said and wait until after your official grades to come in before you start writing random numbers down to try and look better for recruitment.
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Old 05-17-2010, 07:42 AM
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Ditto to what WhiteDaisy said. Your gpa is the one that the school has on your official records. There is no projected gpa.

Also, keep in mind that hastily making plans based on grades is a common mistake, particularly for collegiates. It can not only be dishonest but it can also lead to anger and desperation (directed at the professors, etc.) if you do not perform as well as you had hoped.
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Old 05-17-2010, 07:49 AM
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Some schools check your GPA against their records and give the sororities a list with everyone's "real" GPA. I wouldn't try to circumvent that.
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Old 05-17-2010, 07:56 AM
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Have you even started any of the three summer classes? You may end up dropping one, you never know.

Yes, it is lying, and you shouldn't do it.
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Old 05-17-2010, 09:48 AM
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Well, there's really not much of need to apologize about it being a stupid question, because, well--yeah, it is--meaning it's a pretty stupid question. If you have to ask is it lying, then it is.
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I agree that people who ask these types of question already know the answer.
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Old 05-17-2010, 11:05 AM
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Listen to me, DO NOT DO THAT. When I was on panhellenic I can't tell you how many times we would clearly outline the GPA standards for recruitment and then have girls lie on their applications knowing we would check. Our fee was non-refundable! They knew this too. If your GPA is going to get better and that time is prior to the deadline, please just wait to register. Not saying you don't have the GPA to rush, I'm assuming at your school what you have is fine, but it's annoying when the staff in campus life is going through to verify and having to change things to reflect the truth.
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Old 05-17-2010, 12:27 PM
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Thank you very much everyone for your responses. I figured it was lying, but I just wanted to check and make sure there weren't any special circumstances for summer semester. I will check with my school's greek life office to see if I can have my grades updated. Summer session grades are posted only about a week and a half before recruitment, so it may be impossible. Have a good day
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Old 05-17-2010, 08:33 PM
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UPDATE-
I contacted my school's greek life office, and she advised me to put my current GPA & then once summer session is over, I can contact the GL office to change it to the (hopefully) higher one. Thanks for everyone's help with the issue. I guess I shouldn't have even posted this question, and just contacted the office to begin with
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Old 05-17-2010, 08:37 PM
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you live and learn. good luck with recruitment.
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Old 05-17-2010, 08:38 PM
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I guess I shouldn't have even posted this question, and just contacted the office to begin with
LOL. That's usually the case. Can we make this part of her post a sticky?

Good luck to you!!!
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Old 05-17-2010, 08:41 PM
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LOL. That's usually the case. Can we make this part of her post a sticky?

Good luck to you!!!
lol. i would use the PB smiley face if i could find it.
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Old 05-19-2010, 01:44 PM
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You can have your rec writers include this info (why gpa is low, summer school classes, etc) in your recs which will help the chapters understand the reason for your lower gpa. And then be sure to make that call to update your records before fall term starts.
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Old 05-28-2010, 02:30 PM
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Most sororities get your real GPA from the Greek Life Office and it will be harder for you to come back from lying AND having a lower GPA than it will be just having a lower GPA. Almost all chapters have a scholarship program to help with those things, it's something you should ask about if you're concerned.
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