Mutual selection?

[QueenCity]

I agree that it's important to mutually choose one another. I am currently in the AI process with a sorority that I carefully researched. Even though I had friends in this given sorority in college and wanted to rush (as it was still called in those days), I knew nothing about them.

As an adult, it turns out that my own personal goals and beliefs align nicely with this particular sorority at the local and national level. That's important. I had researched and met with another group of women as well, and though they were great women of substance, this group is better suited toward me (and I toward them).