Boise State/ Univ of Idaho Greek life

[EagleScout4life]

I am heading into my sophomore year of college. I am 20 yr old (class of 2019)spent my first year at a Jr college and transferring into either BSU or Univ of Idaho in the fall(deciding this week due to COVID stay home and commute or move to Moscow). I am wanting to join a fraternity and curious what Greek life is like at BSU or UI. Are they both highly competitive Greek systems to get accepted into a Fraternity? I don’t party. would I be cut because I’m not the party type. I’m a gamer. I am an Eagle Scout, State head of my Masonic youth Organization (Demolay) I have a High GPA 3.5 and in honor society. I was on my High School track team and marching band. I am a Mason and a Shriner. However, I want to hang out and make friends and be a brother with guts my age.. My mom is a sorority member and says I am the complete package. However, her stories from Greek life in the south in the early 90s ..... well sounds cut throat. I am shy and somewhat awkward at times and just curious how Greek life is at Boise State or even Univ of Idaho. Any advice? Be your self is played out. I need tips to make it through recruitment and stand out to get a bid. Any advice will help a lot!