bid day gone wrong..so sorry this is long but heres my story

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Originally Posted by 33girl

If every woman everywhere would understand and believe that, we wouldn't have tiers or weak recruiting chapters at any of our schools. Unfortunately, the men seem to be the only ones that get this.

Originally Posted by FSUZeta

Or worse. I have heard college men telling PNMs which sororities they should join. Heck, they were doing it back in the dark ages when I rushed.

She can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe 33girl is referring to how men perceive their individual influences on their own chapter; not how they influence sorority recruitment.

By the way, if PNMs believed that - that a strong woman will define her chapter, not the other way around - then PNMs wouldn't listen to the men who try to tell them which chapter to join.