-sigh- part 2

[AlphaGamDiva]

so....broke up with the b/f a few days ago......it was one of the hardest things i have ever done (cried the whole way through it), but it had to be done. he is "in love" with me, and i just "love" him....and that can't work out right. better to end it now than go on and let it get worse.....right?

don't think he's too happy with me, but we said that we'd still be cool and stuff. we'll see how it all goes. it's been a few months coming, so while i am extremely sad about the whole thing, i am also somewhat relieved. it was still causing bad energy with the fam, and as much as i hate what they think and will never agree with it, i just didn't love him enough to stay with him and try to prove some point....which is what it has been feeling like lately.

[swissmiss04]

I'm sorry. If it's any consolation, you won't always feel this badly. And you'll find someone that's perfect for you. One of my friends on her profile says something like "Don't worry about people from your past. There's a reason they didn't make it to your future." Words to ponder.
In the meantime, here's a hug!

[The1calledTKE]

Sorry Mon! Things will get better.

[sigtau305]

Sorry to hear that, diva. I'm sure things will be better for you. just hang in there.

[AchtungBaby80]

Ooooh, that's how I felt when I broke up with my boyfriend. It's been a couple months, but sometimes I still feel guilty because I really hurt his feelings...but the relationship was getting to be a chore, and it shouldn't be like that. If that's how you felt, you did the right thing.

[AlethiaSi]

aww baby! i'm so sorry... but you really did the best thing for you- there was no reason for you stay with him if you didn't feel it... i'm proud of you for staying true to yourself... and like everyone said- you won't always feel this bad about it... as my mom says... its important now- but it won't always be....

hang in there babe