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04-16-2006, 03:21 PM
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How do you deal with break-ups
Since I'm going thru one now, advice is welcome.
So far I've
deleted him/and his friends out of my phone
deleted pictures/taken down our pictures
removed dates of importance from my pda
exchanged the ring I got for x-mas for a sweet new necklace
deleted the emails I've saved
changed my sn
anything else
Last edited by GreekLetterGirl; 04-16-2006 at 03:26 PM.
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04-16-2006, 03:36 PM
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Maybe have a conversation stating that you don't want to have anything to do with him?
Changing your sn sounds a bit extreme. There's a reason God gave us the block feature.
With all of that, are you concerned for your safety in any way?
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04-16-2006, 06:58 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by ktsnake
With all of that, are you concerned for your safety in any way?
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I don't think I'm in any danger.
As far as the converstation, I really don't want to talk to him. I have nothing to say to him so I don't think it'd really do anything.
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04-16-2006, 07:14 PM
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No contact for AT LEAST a month. He can get his stuff back after that time...but that's also what the Salvation Army is for.
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04-17-2006, 02:40 AM
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Munchkin03 is right.
3 months preferably . . . or to put it another way, you can talk to him when you have no desire to talk to him again.
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Originally posted by Munchkin03
No contact for AT LEAST a month. He can get his stuff back after that time...but that's also what the Salvation Army is for.
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04-17-2006, 07:22 AM
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gotcha.
thanks for the advice.
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04-17-2006, 05:11 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by James
Munchkin03 is right.
3 months preferably . . . or to put it another way, you can talk to him when you have no desire to talk to him again.
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Ah James and his ever sound advice 
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04-19-2006, 12:09 AM
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There was an article in the paper today, in fact, about how complicated break-ups can be with today's technology. It pretty much recommended a lot of the steps I've seen on this post.
Also in the article: A guy and his ex-wife were indicated as a "match" on a dating website that they had both posted profiles on.
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04-19-2006, 08:06 AM
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Quote:
Originally posted by JonInKC
There was an article in the paper today, in fact, about how complicated break-ups can be with today's technology. It pretty much recommended a lot of the steps I've seen on this post.
Also in the article: A guy and his ex-wife were indicated as a "match" on a dating website that they had both posted profiles on.
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Can you post a link to the article? I'd be interested to read it.
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04-19-2006, 09:28 AM
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Quote:
Originally posted by JonInKC
Also in the article: A guy and his ex-wife were indicated as a "match" on a dating website that they had both posted profiles on.
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This sounds like the 21st century version of that stupid Pina Colada song.
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04-19-2006, 07:31 PM
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Originally posted by GreekLetterGirl
Can you post a link to the article? I'd be interested to read it.
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Sure.
http://nl.newsbank.com/nl-search/we/...290&p_docnum=3
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04-19-2006, 07:33 PM
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Hey Jon,
the link didn't work buddy.
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04-19-2006, 07:38 PM
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Try again. There was an extra slash in the url. Should work now.
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04-19-2006, 07:40 PM
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Quote:
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Try again. There was an extra slash in the url. Should work now.
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 still not working. It's ok. I don't need to read the article that bad.
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04-19-2006, 07:50 PM
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Quote:
Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
still not working. It's ok. I don't need to read the article that bad.
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http://nl.newsbank.com/nl-search/we/...290&p_docnum=3
ARGH!!!! It works for me!!!
Anywho...here's the copy and paste:
nl.newsbank.com/nl-search/we/Archives?p_action=doc&p_docid=11118D9BDD9B0290&p_d ocnum=3
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